How to find a senior living advisor you can trust?

What Does a Senior Living Advisor Do?

A senior living advisor is a professional who helps families:

• Understand different types of senior housing
• Match with communities based on care needs, preferences, and budget
• Coordinate tours and walk you through the selection process
• Offer emotional and logistical support during the transition

Most advisors provide their services at no cost to families — they’re paid a referral fee by the community only when a move-in occurs.

Where Can You Find Senior Living Advisors?

Here are 3 ways to find one:

1. Senior Care Directories (Like SeniorAdvisorList.com)
   • These platforms allow you to submit your information and get matched with a local, independent advisor who knows your area. It saves you time and gives you personalized help.
2. Referrals From Professionals
   • Ask:
     • Hospital case managers
     • Social workers
     • Discharge planners
     • Elder law attorneys
     • Geriatric care managers
3. Online Search
   • You can search terms like:
     • “Senior living advisor near me”
     • “Help finding assisted living in [your city]”
     • “Free senior placement service [state]”

Just be cautious — many large national services operate more like call centers. Look for independent advisors who offer personalized guidance.

What to Look For in a Trusted Advisor

Not all advisors are the same. Here’s what sets the good ones apart:

• Local knowledge: They know the communities near you — not just reading from a database
• Experience: They’ve helped many families through this process
• Personalized approach: They listen first, then guide — not just hand you a list
• Transparent about fees: They disclose how they’re paid and what’s included
• No pressure: They support your decisions at your pace

Questions to Ask Before Choosing an Advisor

Here are some helpful questions to ask:

• How long have you worked in senior care?
• What areas do you cover?
• Do you work independently or for a specific company?
• How do you get paid?
• What kind of support do you offer after move-in?

 The answers can help you identify someone who’s not only qualified — but aligned with your values.

Why Local & Independent Advisors Are Often Best

Working with a local advisor (vs. a national hotline) gives you access to someone who:

• Has toured communities in your area
• Knows which communities have a good reputation
• Can quickly connect you with openings that match your needs
• Is available to talk in real time — not on a rotating schedule

 Local advisors also tend to be more invested in your outcome. It’s their name and reputation on the line.